Life is not about Myopic Outlook but is Imbued with Possibilities!

तिथि: आषाढ़ कृष्ण द्वादशी, रविवार, संवत्सर कालयुक्त, विक्रम संवत् २०८२

Life can always lead to unexpected scenarios, it is the person himself who try to bury this uncertainty into oblivion in order to concoct the delusion of living in the security of certainty.

The fear of losing make one do actions that are thought to be beyond ones abilities, morality or accepted norms; even then the peace of mind remains a luxury to afford no matter how much endeavour one do to remain caught in the circumstances that are dear to them.

The journey towards Anxiety begins with attachments that one conceives while craving for owning all that is considered best in materialistic or emotive domains.

Although when perceived briefly it appears to be perfectly motivating to aspire for best but the questions arise when it is looked upon at thoroughly.

For instance, when one continually crave for success by hook or crook and not accept the possibility of failures, it is bound to affect their physical, psychological and emotional health. It also undermines ones cognitive abilities to function efficiently and results in self doubt and outlook myopia.

Desire is endless, no matter what one achieve it can never be satiated in true sense.

So instead of giving in to incessant yearnings, one should foster skills of Aspiring Responsibly and hone the natural ingenuity present in self while avoiding relating the self esteem to the possible outcomes.

The realism of unpredictability should be embraced as a guiding light of what one can make out of this mortal life. In the veil of uncertainty their exists the anvil to experience the variegated domains of existence and to fill oneself with the essence of completeness that emanates from within through this unfettered exploration.

Freedom is the most sought after phenomenon however each time its sprouting is nipped in bud by the boundaries of quid pro quo framing of the reference. One can never measure freedom in degrees because it was never meant to be achieved with “subject to” conditionality. Instead it must be allowed to bloom spontaneously amidst multifarious experiences that are part and parcel of life.

Exploration should be devoid of compartmentalizing experiences instead it should be imbibed in its entirety, similarly Life is not about success or failures of desirous undertakings but is the phenomenon to witness the facets of possibilities and in realizing the ultimate understanding of unravelling oneself in the process.

Ambiguous Silence

Silence is the ultimate goal of every journey. Every thing that seems indispensable today will appear temporary tomorrow be it emotions, relations or varied human interactions. Key is to witness them without being bounded by them. Emotional, intellectual & spiritual investments in society including families should be driven by requirements not by devotion,respect, admiration or dedication because being present without being involved is the way to attain peace, stability and freedom.

Mind’s Conundrum

"Purpose" is what ultimately defines the synchronization of ethos, thoughts and endeavours, it also lay down the blue print upon which one builds the versions of self identity, which in turn interacts with the outside environment to influence it and get influenced by it. Self correction and self-upgradation are the qualitative aspect of “self identity”. Choice is what explains the proclivity towards sticking to set of self construed identities or all together transforming them to bring in the new set of standards. However, no matter how appealing these both attitudes appear in theirs individual realms, too much of adherence to any of them results in “Identity Crisis”. If we dive deep to ponder over What actually is Mind Conflict? It may not be wrong to start with defining it as the situation where there exist multitude of expectations, on the alter of one's potential, struggling for getting appropriate realization. And of course the social grooming of the phenomenon of what is success and failure, have the invigorating impact on how one perceive, what one wants to expect or desire. As is evident, mostly in present scenario, that psychoanalysis is influencing the emotional choices and outcomes in far greater terms than what the reverse impact of emotional deliberations or inspiration have on the intellect. This has somewhat degraded the inner equilibrium of coherence resulting in lack of content, consent and concurrence of thoughts and emotions both within and in the outside world. Sense of security viz. social, intellectual and emotional, have different meaning among individuals and across societies, however, it play a humongous role in driving the “purpose” and engendering “conflicts” and “identities”